your questions, answered.

  • start by booking a matchmaker consultation. from there you’ll complete a questionnaire. if it feels like a mutual fit, you'll be invited to join the flock or the nest and added to our matchmaking database for six months.

  • we are based in san diego, but have been expanding to orange county and los angeles due to popular demand.

  • little birdie is currently for singles 25 and older who are looking for meaningful and aligned connections. our community includes people across different life stages, but everyone is screened for intention, emotional readiness, and fit for the event or matchmaking experience.

  • joining little birdie starts with a $125 matchmaker consultation. if accepted, you'll receive six months of flock membership, including curated match consideration, priority event access, discounted event tickets, and community membership.

    if you would want more personalized dating support, we recommend joining the nest for $249/month

  • no. while all members receive curated match consideration, we prioritize quality and alignment over forcing introductions. our goal is to make thoughtful connections with real potential.

  • no. many of our members have been to therapy or are open to self-reflection, but therapy is not required.

  • some events are open to the broader community, while others are reserved for flock and nest members. all attendees complete an application and screening process.

  • yes. little birdie is committed to creating a welcoming and affirming space for LGBTQ+ singles. everyone deserves the opportunity to build meaningful and aligned connections in a community where they feel respected, supported, and valued.

  • led by a licensed therapist and matchmaker, these 1:1 sessions help you explore dating patterns, gain clarity, and build a more intentional approach to relationships. think of it as personalized guidance for dating with greater confidence, insight, and purpose.

  • no. little birdie is not therapy or clinical treatment. while our work is therapist-led and informed by relationship dynamics, emotional readiness, and intentional connection, our services are focused on matchmaking, dating support, and curated community experiences.